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February 16th, 2008 at 07:47 pm

Leaving a little comment on another debtors blog, I began to rant at will. I did not post that long thing, but wanted to get out my words anyway.

My mom yelled at me saying that I shouldn't be living off my refund, as that is never a guarantteed thing. I told her I knew. She doesn't know that I opened a CD with half of it.

She is also making me feel like her boyfriends daughter. When she lived one state away, they always talked about what a loser she was, how good I was to be working and rasing two kids.

Now the daughter not only lives in this state, but in the other half of the double house I live in. What fun.
She has let her gas and light bills go outrageous. She had no gas heat for 6 months. Her father paid the bill. Her lights were shut off; her dad paid the bill. She got fired from her job; her dad paid her phone bill.

I got a disconect bill from the gas co. for $90.41. I was shocked. You are really gonna turn my heat off in the middle of winter, with my two kids inside. My mom went online, and paid my bill.
She made me feel like the slut next door.
I told her that, and she said there is no comparison.
I still feel bad though. I am going to college full time, working way less hours than I should, and she is a bartender at a resturant. She shouldn't have to pay for me anymore.
Not that I don't appreciate the help.

When I moved in this house, she paid the deposit. I had a months rent, but not double that. Mom said that I was her only child and that when I need her, she was there and not to pay her back.

Then when the slut moved in next door, my mom paid her deposit.
What the hell?!

Thanks for letting me vent.
Sorry I almost hijacked someones blog.

Posted in Hints and Tips Wanted, Credit Abuser, Checkbook Hell!, Darling Dears | 3 Comments »

3 Responses to “While reading your page...”

  1. luxlivingfrugalis Says:
    February 16th, 2008 at 08:29 pm 1203193780
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    I get the 'wonderful, wonderful, wonderful' things that my step-siblings do all the time. Hard not to want to throw up sometimes! They got a raise and hung the moon. Me, eh, I'm a stay at home Mom. Not alot there to brag up grandious and show pictures of - not like my stepsibs 9 bazillion square foot house.

    I try not to compete and let it go. Hard sometimes.

    You're trying and I'm sure your Mom knows that. Chin up.

  2. koppur Says:
    February 17th, 2008 at 02:07 pm 1203257273
    1203257273

    If it makes you feel better, I am almost 30 and am just now financially independent from my parents. I had some hotible mistakes with massive amounts of credit, and they had to help me for years; incuding paying rent sometimes. I owe tham thousands that I am working on paying off slowly as I can. You'll get on your feet soon enough. Good luck.

  3. HelpMeFriend Says:
    February 17th, 2008 at 04:29 pm 1203265771
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    I think that my mom knows how hard it was, since she worked three jobs when I was little. She also knows that I have two children that I love very much.
    If my boyfriend wasn't working and helping, she might not be. She knows we are trying and how hard it is.
    I love her, and she loves me.
    If it wern't for her, we would be living with his parents, and she knows that I don't want that.

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