We had a fight this morning. It was about money. My BD has been working and making all of the money for the last five months. Good for him. Finally. He is upset that all of his money goes to bills. I was making half what he is, paying all the bills and still found money to take care of the two childrens wants and needs.
His problem is that his past is catching up to him. He can no longer run from it. My past caught up with me after one year and now I am swimming in debt. I have some major situations that I have not devulged to this site. He is mad that I will not pay for his mistake. I am sorry, but I work two days a week, making almost half per hour as him and go to school full time. I go to and take care of all school and daycare things. He only sees the money half. I put my all into the family, not just making the paycheck.
Why must money be such a big issue?
I hate it.
Fighting and Money
February 5th, 2008 at 01:15 pm
February 5th, 2008 at 01:50 pm 1202219448
Good luck!
February 5th, 2008 at 01:53 pm 1202219615
List all of your debts and his and show him where his and your money goes. Then,try to think in terms of OUR money. Get him involved w/debt paying,budgeting,shopping etc.
Get his opinion. BOTH of you have to work to solve the money problems....everything else will just fall into place after that.
February 5th, 2008 at 04:50 pm 1202230242